"It's really easy to be jealous of BM and worry about cheating in general. The thing is, if he is going to cheat, there isn't anything you can do to stop it. If it happens you deal with it then, but why stress yourself out over something…"
"Also, a word of advice... Try not to point out to BM that the child will have 3 parents. We did that and it only caused her to go batshit crazy. DH may want to point out - in time 1 that you will be an integral part of SS's life and that you…"
"Men say and do stupid things in those situations. They just don't know any better. And more importantly, they are scared. They are scared that if they don't appease BM and play to her wants, she will take the child away. And this…"
"Thank you ladies. I really like that email and I think that message really points to the fact that this child will have 2 families and be loved no matter the circumstances. I read it to DH and asked him if he sees how that sends a different message…"