"Thanks ladies for your support and advice.  Thankfully I didn't need to stay in today but have to go back for more tests, scans and a endoscopy.  So panic over for now 're DP not being around.  It wasn't a matter of not…"

"If your wife is going to be hospitalized (and it sounds like there is no one else to be with her) I don't think it's reasonable to be with your daughter when she has her BF and other family to be with her. There is plenty of time to bond…"

"I'm not going to flame. I guess for me, it's a situation choice.  I know that when DIL pulled her big drama stunt several years ago, sure that DH would choose PLG, OSS and herself - I was shocked that he pulled his head out of his…"

"I have a different thought when reading this....Please understand that I'm in no way saying your feelings are wrong - they're not, they are your feelings.  I'm not saying the others are wrong either - just that I have a different…"